I have met my right person. He is someone who speaks to my soul in a way that like you said, you can’t really articulate until you experience it. I think there is a misconception though that your soul mate, makes things easy. While the connection you have to that person is easy, a relationship is still a relationship and requires the work of two people to constantly continue to grow independently and interdependently. What is different, in a lot of ways is that the willingness to grow together is present. There isn’t any forcing or pushing or controlling in trying to fit this other person into your life, he is simply a constant. So, even when your life is tumultuous and the growth you are experiencing within and around your self and your relationship is uncomfortable, that person still speaks to your soul in a way no one else could.